Why Self-help Fails: 4 Ways to Get and Stay on Track

How amazing would things be if your parents were sitting in the stands right now, applauding you for accomplishing something few people dare to achieve? A life less ordinary, the life of your dreams. Smarter, richer, better looking, more interesting, a fulfilling social life—we all want some version of these things.

Motivation—it’s the reasons or desire behind why we do something. And if you’re reaching for self-improvement motivation or lack thereof is often the number one reason why self-help fails. Because after all motivation all too often boils down to a feeling.

While that tingly sensation or rush of excitement is enough to get you started. It’s about as useful as a snow blower in August in the long run. Here are some ways to get past your feelings and to give failure a few kicks in the teeth.